I am not commenting on the morality of doing meth. I am not commenting on the morality of paying a man for gay sex. I don't agree with either of those things, obviously, but that's not my point. Nor am I making a comment on the hypocrcy of preaching against those things and then doing them.
No, my point is this: if you are a male pastor of a huge congregation and someone accuses you of paying him for sex and doing meth right before said sex, you can either deny it all unequivocally or you can admit to everything, whether you actually did it or not.... and if someone has a voice recording of you in the act, and you admit that it is indeed your voice on the tape and that you do indeed know this male prostitute who is accusing you of these things, you might as well own up to it and move on and forget about things ever getting back to normal... You're fucked, OK?
BUT... you're NOT fooling ANYONE if you admit to buying the meth but then say you never used it... and that you got a massage from said male prostitute but never actually had sex. You are not fooling anyone and it just makes you look like an even bigger fool and hypocrite, OK?
Random thoughts from a lawyer, an accountant, a commodities trader, an ex-Marine and a WSOP Main Event money finisher that don't know as much as they wish they did...